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First of all. Victor's Surprise Party was a huge success.
Very Happy. I was so excited I couldn't sleep the days before it.
Am glad you enjoyed yourself. Hope its a memorable 21st birthday for you.




Next, researching for creative web solutions in the office have been fun and inspiring.
Saw loads of cool and awesome stuff on the web.

One particularly cute thing was this interactive banner,
which caught my eye with a big "Don't push" sign.




I clicked and i got hooked. Clicked my way to the end of that advertisement and all the way to their website
and continued clicking at their free trial of an online D-I-Y banner making site. www.bannersnack.com/

INTERESTING.


I also noticed some funny and interesting stuff on my way to work one day.

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Hey.
I came across this article about communicating with people.
I liked it. Read it too.


Some of the most significant messages people deliver
to one another often come in just three words.
When spoken or conveyed, those statements have the power to forge new friendships,
deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled.

I'll be there:
Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give.
When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and to us.

I miss you:
Perhaps more marriages could be salvaged and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other, "I miss you." The power of affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.

I respect you:
Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal.
It is a powerful way to affirm the importance of a relationship.

Maybe you're right:
The phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions.
The flip side of "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting "maybe I'm wrong."

Please forgive me:
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults and failure.

I thank you:
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy.
People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thanks their friends for their many expressions of kindness.

Count on me:
"A friend is one who walks in when others walk out," observes Walter Winchell. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people and builds trust.

Let me help:
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it.
When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it.

I understand you:
People become closer and enjoy each other more
if they feel the other person accepts and understands them.

Go for it:
Some of your friends may be nonconformists, have unique projects and unusual hobbies.
Support them in pursuing their interests.
"Rather than urging your loved ones to conform, encourage their uniqueness.
Everyone has dreams that no one else has."

I suppose the 3 little words that I was expecting to see here have to be reserved
for those who are special and that is I love you

" Was it so hard to tell a story? And was it that important to know?
  Well, it doesn't change or matter; but it helps to break the wall."




Hey,
It was Yip's birthday and I found it rather satisfying to be celebrating it with her this year.
There was much more laughter, and new friends. LOTS OF SURPRISES.
I realized its been some time since I can laugh this long and hard.
Kinda miss the days when I do, and all my friends who either laughed along with me or waited patiently for their nightmare to stop.
When I think back and rmbed that our friendship have weathered through 5 years, it just felt more and more precious.


Only time can tell what's true. All the talking can stop.


SAFRACS
Me, Vick, Zong and Wanqi brought the elderlies for a farms tour at the SAFRACS event this april.
I'm happy I got connected to Safracs. I am grateful to you for making one of my dream come true.

OH AND  A parrot stood on my finger. SUUUPER COOUTE~
It was lots of fun and I bought black fungus from a mushroom farm in an attempt to grow black hair.

Had enough of white hairs,
If white hairs can stay straight and white, I might still find them pretty.
But too bad, they do the opposite – curled and dried up like spoiled spring in a bed.

Handling emotions are tough.
I haven been in the best mood these days. And I realized my temper is hanging around me.
I reach home and I flare up over a messy table, I get upset with little things.

My tolerance level was dropping.

Sorry. I'm hoping it will tide over soon.
And wow,

Life is forever tough, but its always beautiful.

   

I just know I am not the kind who takes short cuts.
I prefer the long and steady route even thought it might be a waste of time and effort some times.
It sounds stupid I know. But that's who I am.

And I did think that I could go for the job that pays. I did think that I can be practical and survive in how the world works. I did think in that way. But when I am faced with the real situation of making the decision. I just realized that I cant.

I CANT DO IT. I just can't make myself do some thing that I don't like just for the money. I can't work for the money.
It's a torture just to think about it. In the end I am still me. I couldn't change how my mind works.

It's wierd to think about how your future paves out in front of you.


OH, and if you are reading this Victor,

  HI!!  HAHAHAHAHHAAHHAAHHAHAA.

This song is so sad.

Things doesn't change, isn't it? It has been years and I am tired of it.
I tried all I could to make it better but it's really out of my control.
Who am I to correct our lives when all of you chose to take the back seat?

And now I lose hope.
I want to get out of here and leave you far away.
But I couldn't. Why can't you make it better?

I lose my strength.
Is there a way to escape? I need a way out.
Or let me lie here in the rain till I start to yearn for the sun.
And when I finally continue walking again, I am trapped.. again.

There is no end.
It does not change.